Monday, June 9, 2025

The Others

We went to see The Others at Cine Capri. It's a movie created in six months by Empowered Theater + Arts. This non-profit organization provides opportunities for adults with handicaps and disabilities to experience and learn acting, music, comedy and visual arts. In the process they work and form community, relationships and new friendships in a world that often treats them as "outsiders".  If you'd like to see the movie it's going to be serialized on YouTube around June 14th. I recommend it heartily!

    The story of The Others is rich and funny. A crew of journalists is invited to make a documentary in Fairy Tale Land. Instead of interviewing stars (the Mains), they choose to interview the supporting characters (the Others) who live in the shadows of fantasy and fame. It's got some hilarious moments (check out the Pub scene...) I've seen several performances by this group, and all of them turned out wonderfully. But The Others is the biggest and most ambitious. It says to me that as Empowered gains experience, they will be an interesting force for education and change.
    Which is sort of the heart of the story. It isn't so much that people suffer prejudices. More significantly, people don't hear, understand or share the living stories of others. Few of us will ever be Mains, and if we get the chance we need to recognize both our impact on the world and our responsibility. Bishop Dolan of the Diocese of Phoenix teaches that the secret to building unity is story-telling. That's sort of what I do here in my blog. How do you tell your story...? 

    Every time I participate in an Empowered production I understand that people with disabilities are just like me. I even hate using that word because it creates categories, and you all know what happens when we put Others in boxes. It's hard in our world to avoid it. But we really need to train ourselves to see that other people are people FIRST, regardless of what makes them different. In fact, being different isn't even a bad thing; we're just different. 
    So, if you ever feel "too different" to join in, just tell your story, just tell a little bit of it. Take small bites. Share it with someone and suddenly, you're not alone!


Wednesday, June 4, 2025

How To Grow A Peaceful Heart

We were having “one of those days” and I noticed I wasn't being exactly nice to the people around me. So I said “I need to get a peaceful heart. What should I do...?”

I googled “How to get a peaceful heart...” and it sent me to Phillippians 4. And the Bible says...


Rejoice in the Lord always. I shall say it again: rejoice! Your kindness should be known to all. The Lord is near. Have no anxiety at all, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, make your requests known to God. Then the peace of God that surpasses all understanding will guard your hearts and mind in Christ Jesus.

Finally, brothers, whatever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is just, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is gracious, if there is any excellence and if there is anything worthy of praise, think about these things.

Phillippians, 4: 4-8


Let's break it down:

#1 – REJOICE! Think about it. We don't have to wait to be happy. Other people don't need to make us happy or do anything. Joy is a decision! Maybe we need a lot of practice, but imagine what can happen when we get really good at it! Choose to be happy. It leads to peace.

#2 – BE A KIND PERSON! Do it in public, not to be a show-off, but be kind so deliberately and so constantly that you can't hide it. Let your kindness spill out and overflow and fill up your life everywhere you go so that even if you wanted to, you couldn't hide it from the world. Let everybody see your kindness and don't even worry about what they think.

#3 – REMEMBER HOW CLOSE GOD IS TO YOU. As Jesus says, “The Kingdom of God is close at hand. Yes, in your very hearts!” Well, where the kingdom is, there is the King, right? And when we pray “Thy Kingdom come, Thy will be done...” Where will it begin if not right here in our own hearts...?

#4 – HAVE NO ANXIETY (worries) at all. We are not slaves to fear or dread, so why entertain their minions? Kick them out. Say, “Nope! No way! You are not allowed...!” You can use the room in your mind and heart to think about better things, like solutions!

#5 – In everything, by prayer, petition and thanksgiving, TELL GOD WHAT YOU WANT. Jesus says, “The reason you don't get what you want is because you don't ask...” Telling God what we want affirms our relationship, grows our confidence, and guides our hearts to righteousness.


Do these things and the peace of God will fill and guard our hearts. So that when we are having “one of those days” instead of being the cause, we might be the solution!

Oh! And here's one more tip: GUARD YOUR THOUGHTS. (Use prayer; it really helps.) When we worry and grow anxious, when we dwell on hurts and failures, how can we live and move in peace? But when we replace our worries with positive thinking—as old-fashioned as it sounds—there is no room for worry, or for acting badly. Jesus says “Fear is useless! What is needed is trust!” We can consciously choose and follow the Gospel way of living.




The Others

We went to see The Others  at Cine Capri. It's a movie created in six months by Empowered Theater + Arts. This non-profit organization p...